After writing yesterday’s blog-post, i started to ponder on what type of Dad (financially) do i have and what type am i to my children?
As a reader of the Rich Dad books who understands the main characteristics of a man you can call a Rich Dad and those of a Poor Dad, i can say my father has the traits of both. Being a very good businessman who started out with nothing, he knew how to invest the money he made from his business in the stock market as well as in properties. My father, who is now 88 years old, has been retired for more that 20 years but his investments are still feeding him to date.
On the other hand, while i was growing up, my father, showing his Poor Dad traits used to tell us to study hard, so we could get safe, secure and well-paid jobs. Most of us followed that advice earlier in our careers but things have changed now.
As for me, i have been leading my children in the direction of distinguishing between Assets (what feeds you and can grow like investments) and Liabilities (what eats you and can grow too through interest payments). Not only that, as the Bible has said in 2nd Corinthians 9:10 that God who “supplies seed to the sower and bread for food, shall supply and multiply your seed for sowing, ..”; if they want their wealth to grow, they must not eat their seed which is supposed to be planted. I am teaching them not view all income as money to be spent but to allocate some as capital for new investments.
If they learn their financial lessons well and know that it is very difficult to grow rich while working for other people, they will be much more better-off financially by the time they reach my age.
In case you don’t know yet, i have written a book entitled “Milestones of Financial Freedom” - Simple Steps For Conquering Debt And Building Wealth in which i dealt with ways in which we can pass the financial freedom ‘baton’ to our children. You may download a FREE chapter from here.